Having known and loved an array of men in my life has been such a beautiful gift. Each one has taught me. Some lessons have been exquisitely life changing while others have been painfully enlightening. None serve their purpose until we are able to recognize the lesson and blessing each comes to offer. One in particular removed a veil about the role crisis plays in our lives. I was feeling the gravitas of a situation when he taught me a new word, crisitunity. He went on to explain how no life is without trouble (Psalm 46:1) but our power lies in our reaction. Instead of bemoaning our trouble, use the same amount of energy to find the opportunity within crisis.
I often hear people question why trouble comes when they try every day to be a good person. If we can count on anything in this life, trouble will come and no one is immune. Not if but when it enters our lives, know that God allowed it. There is always a purpose whether visible or not (Jeremiah 29:11). All difficult experiences are meant to break us open, ultimately resulting in a transformation that will help others later. Traumatic events from birth to death all have purpose. Amidst the pain are blessings just waiting for our acknowledgement. (Thessalonians 5:18) Recognizing God’s faithfulness during the storm as opposed to after, is an experience I can’t possibly convey. I will tell you the experience is addictive and highly recommended.
We can learn equal amounts from joy and pain. It often takes us decades to realize this. Easy as it is to see his love in the joyful times, God also allowed the pain. He also walks with us every step of the way, watch for the helpers in every situation. There you will find his love for us. Father God rejoices when we are able to assimilate both the lessons and blessings and furthermore bless another of his children (Hebrews 13:5-6).
We find continual practice opportunities in our relationships. It doesn’t require a life altering sabbatical to ponder application. Opportunity is in front of us daily in the seemingly mundane. There are wounds to heal, forgiveness to give and receive, wisdom to share without going anywhere. As we pray for God to show us ways to bless others with our experiences, we then must stay ready at the gas pump, checkout line, on the job or backyard. My wish for us all is that we will more rapidly recognize a “crisitunity”. As we do, a more joyful life on this side of heaven awaits that just may bless another.
Related scripture: Psalm 46:1, James 1:2-4, Philippians 4:6-9, Psalm 23:1-6, Proverbs 3:3-5, 30:5, 2 Corinthians 1:3